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Why High-Performing Men Choose Shae Matthews
You have achieved success in your career, but your inner life—confidence, relationships, and peace of mind—feels stuck. Shae Matthews combines 20+ years of experience in transformational therapy, evolutionary psychology, and dating mastery to help you rewire your core beliefs.
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Eliminate Social Anxiety:
This is about moving beyond just "coping" with social fear and fundamentally rewiring the root cause of your hesitation. Using proven techniques like Cognitive Restructuring, we will identify and reframe the negative thought patterns that trigger anxiety in professional and social settings. Through safe, gradual exposure exercises and embodiment practices, you will build genuine, unshakeable confidence from the inside out, transforming anxious energy into a natural, magnetic presence that draws people in.
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Master Relationships
This process goes deeper than surface-level dating tips; it focuses on the psychology of attraction and the art of creating deep, authentic connections. You will learn to understand attachment styles, master non-verbal communication, and develop the emotional depth that high-quality partners and collaborators are drawn to. The goal is to cultivate a powerful sense of self-worth that makes you a leader in your relationships, able to connect with integrity and build lasting partnerships.
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Emotional Control
This is the skill of becoming the master of your internal state, rather than a victim of your reactions. You will learn to stop being triggered by external events—like work pressure or difficult conversations—and instead learn to lead your life with intent. Using powerful tools like mindfulness, state management, and somatic awareness, you will develop the capacity to remain calm and clear-headed under pressure, making you a more effective leader and decision-maker.
ABOUT ME
I’m Passionate About Guiding You Towards Your Best Self
Shae Matthews is a rare anomaly in the coaching world—a veteran mentor grounded equally in high-stakes executive dating dynamics and deep transformative therapy. For over 15 years, he served as the Head Inner Game Coach for The Natural Lifestyles (TNL), one of the world’s premier dating and lifestyle academies. In that time, Shae has guided thousands of men—from CEOs to creatives—out of stagnation and into power, blending evolutionary psychology, somatic healing, and practical social mastery.
Unlike generic life coaches who offer surface-level "accountability," Shae’s methodology is built on radical rewiring. He specializes in helping men dissolve chronic nice-guy patterns, heal deep-seated shame, and unlock a "magnetic" masculine presence that commands respect in the boardroom and attraction in the bedroom. Whether you are battling an existential crisis or simply want to master the art of connection, Shae provides the tools to correct negative habits at their root, ensuring your confidence is not just a performance, but your new default state.
HEAR FROM THOSE WHO'VE TRANSFORMED THEIR LIVES
I used to feel shame about my body and sexuality, but working with Shae helped me shed that shame and embrace my masculinity in a positive way. His coaching taught me to honor my body and feelings, and to express my sexuality authentically. Now I feel confident and empowered as a man. If you're struggling with body or sexual shame, I highly recommend Shae's coaching.
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