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Why High-Performing Men Choose Shae Matthews
You have achieved success in your career, but your inner life—confidence, relationships, and peace of mind—feels stuck. Shae Matthews combines 20+ years of experience in transformational therapy, evolutionary psychology, and dating mastery to help you rewire your core beliefs.
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Eliminate Social Anxiety:
This is about moving beyond just "coping" with social fear and fundamentally rewiring the root cause of your hesitation. Using proven techniques like Cognitive Restructuring, we will identify and reframe the negative thought patterns that trigger anxiety in professional and social settings. Through safe, gradual exposure exercises and embodiment practices, you will build genuine, unshakeable confidence from the inside out, transforming anxious energy into a natural, magnetic presence that draws people in.
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Master Relationships
This process goes deeper than surface-level dating tips; it focuses on the psychology of attraction and the art of creating deep, authentic connections. You will learn to understand attachment styles, master non-verbal communication, and develop the emotional depth that high-quality partners and collaborators are drawn to. The goal is to cultivate a powerful sense of self-worth that makes you a leader in your relationships, able to connect with integrity and build lasting partnerships.
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Emotional Control
This is the skill of becoming the master of your internal state, rather than a victim of your reactions. You will learn to stop being triggered by external events—like work pressure or difficult conversations—and instead learn to lead your life with intent. Using powerful tools like mindfulness, state management, and somatic awareness, you will develop the capacity to remain calm and clear-headed under pressure, making you a more effective leader and decision-maker.
ABOUT ME
I’m Passionate About Guiding You Towards Your Best Self
Shae Matthews is a rare anomaly in the coaching world—a veteran mentor grounded equally in high-stakes executive dating dynamics and deep transformative therapy. For over 15 years, he served as the Head Inner Game Coach for The Natural Lifestyles (TNL), one of the world’s premier dating and lifestyle academies. In that time, Shae has guided thousands of men—from CEOs to creatives—out of stagnation and into power, blending evolutionary psychology, somatic healing, and practical social mastery.
Unlike generic life coaches who offer surface-level "accountability," Shae’s methodology is built on radical rewiring. He specializes in helping men dissolve chronic nice-guy patterns, heal deep-seated shame, and unlock a "magnetic" masculine presence that commands respect in the boardroom and attraction in the bedroom. Whether you are battling an existential crisis or simply want to master the art of connection, Shae provides the tools to correct negative habits at their root, ensuring your confidence is not just a performance, but your new default state.
HEAR FROM THOSE WHO'VE TRANSFORMED THEIR LIVES
"I Found Confidence and Self-Love with Shae’s Help"
Shae's coaching was transformative for me. His compassionate, non-judgmental guidance fostered self-acceptance, empowering me to adopt a positive narrative for my life. With Shae's help, I've gained confidence, optimism, and self-love. Highly recommend Shae for anyone seeking to enhance their mindset and well-being.
KRISTOFFER
"Gained a lot of Clarity and Confidence!"
Shae helped me understand my role as a mature male and overcome common challenges. Through our work together during the coaching, I gained clarity and confidence, developed better communication skills, and feel empowered to reach my full potential. Highly recommended for men seeking to improve their well-being.
DAVE
"Shae Totally Changed How I See Myself"
I heard amazing things about Shae's teachings and the transformative effects on many people's lives, and so was eager to work with him myself. Starting with our first meeting, he gave me several powerful tools to help me directly address my limiting beliefs about my own self-worth. Just talking with Shae had a powerful effect on shattering and reshaping my concept of reality; he has a way of phrasing difficult concepts in metaphors and explanations that are very easy to digest. I can't count the number of 'ah-ha!' moments I've had during discussions with him. The many guys I know who have also worked with Shae all repeat the same basic truth: if you have the opportunity to work with Shae, you will see massive shifts in your views of yourself and the world, and thus a massive improvement in your quality of life. He helped me change my life. Truly grateful for him!
SIMON
