About

For years, I lived what I call the "Nice Guy" script. I was successful on paper, but internally, I was plagued by hesitation, people-pleasing, and a constant need for validation. I knew there had to be more than just "coping" with anxiety—I wanted to dominate it.

My search for answers took me around the globe, from the boardrooms of corporate Australia to the deep spiritual practices of the East. I didn't just read about change; I lived it. I spent over 15 years as the Head Inner Game Coach for The Natural Lifestyles, one of the world’s most elite dating and lifestyle academies. There, I worked in the trenches with thousands of men, helping them break free from social anxiety and deeply ingrained limiting beliefs.

Today, known to my clients as "The Shaeman," I combine the sharp edge of evolutionary psychology with the deep wisdom of somatic healing. My mission is simple: to help you stop settling for a "good enough" existence and start building a legacy of power, purpose, and passion.

Most life coaching fails because it tries to bolt new habits onto a broken foundation. You can’t "think positive" your way out of deep-seated trauma or chronic hesitation.

My approach is different. I focus on Inner Game Mastery—the art of aligning your subconscious beliefs with your conscious desires. We don't just talk about your problems; we use active tools like NLP, Somatic Release, and Cognitive Restructuring to fundamentally rewire how you process stress and attraction.

What You Can Expect:

• No Fluff: We get straight to the root of your blocks in the first session.

• Action-Over-Analysis: You will leave every call with a concrete mission.

• Holistic Power: We integrate your career success with your dating life and spiritual health.

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